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Mixed Feelings to Start My Weekend

One full week into the new year and it’s been interesting so far.  On the financial front, I’ve experienced 3 major things that will affect the way I handle my finances:

The Good

I got a raise.  Yay!  Nearly 5% - way more than I expected in this crappy economy.

The Bad

My gas bill was $175.36 this month.  It was $107.33 last month and $143.93 in January last year.  That’s a 63% increase compared to the previous month and a 22% increase compared to the same month in the previous year.  Hmm…a 5% annual raise in salary, but a 22% annual increase in the heating bill.  Just great.  Inflation is not my friend.

The Ugly

BabyGirl’s school is undergoing budget cuts.  The first thing to go was the after school transportation program on Monday and Wednesday evenings.  Ok, that may not surprise you, but most kids (including my own) stay after school on Monday and Wednesday for tutoring or non-athletic club activities.  As a result, parents will now have to figure out a way to pick up their kids by 4pm or sacrifice participation.  I have flexibility in my work schedule, so I’ll just leave early on those days to pick her up.  But why do I have a problem with this?  Because parents were warned in advance and asked if we would contribute to the cost of late bus transportation on Monday and Wednesday.  I signed that paper and FAXED it back to the school ime’jet’ly!!  Didn’t trust BabyGirl, had to make sure it got into the right hands. LOL  Based on the school’s decision, I can only assume the majority of parents did not respond favorably.  This speaks volumes about the state of our economy because I live in one of the wealthiest suburbs in the DC metro area. :-(

Even when you’re doing everything right, the economy still affects you indirectly.

How have your finances been affected, if any?

I Spent My Entire Paycheck in 10 Minutes

I was paid this week and expect another on or before the 1st.  Therefore, I can postpone my rent until next pay day and consider this entire paycheck free game.  How ’bout that!  But what in the world would I do with it all?  Hmm…let’s see.

  • I could buy more Christmas gifts.
  • I could spend another birthday weekend at the Ritz.
  • I could stash some cash and go nuts at the end of my shopping strike.
  • I could plan a last minute holiday vacation.

Yes, I could do all of those things, but you know me better than that.  Right?  Right!  When I’m on a mission, my focus is more keen than a military sniper.  So instead of wasting an entire paycheck, I decided to give my e-fund some love:

Goal: $25,000

Previous Balance: $22,695

Recent Deposits: +$1,900

  • Monthly Interest: $0
  • Direct Deposit: $100
  • Manual Deposit: $1,800

New Balance: $24,595

Additional Savings Needed: $405

Only $405 more to go.  Woo-wee!

The rest of my paycheck went towards end of month bills.  With online billpay and online transfer, the entire thing was gone in less than 10 minutes. LOL!  But I also have a freelance invoice for a few hundred dollars pending payment on the 21st.  The timing is perfect because I plan to use it during the holiday break.  BabyGirl and I will have 9 days of no work, no agenda, no ‘things to do’ list, and no concrete plans.  Which means, an idle mind is the devil’s playground I will need some “play money” and the $405 e-fund shortfall will have to wait until next year.  *shrug* Works for me.

Happy Friday!

Old Budget Notes From Single Ma of YesterYear

Earlier this week, I was sorting through my old files and trying to find the leather portfolio I usually carry on interviews.  Instead of the newer one, I ran across an old one from my college job fair days.  I hadn’t seen that thing in years (apparently I packed it in a box when I moved LOL) and it sent me on an interesting trip down memory lane.

I found an old resume with very little work experience.  It was literally one page and all of my education was at the top! LOL!  I found some notes from my interview with Merrill Lynch - thank gawd I didn’t get that job!  Back in the day, I wanted to be an investment banker. LOL!  I also found a few business cards, my undergrad transcripts, and a torn piece of paper that was folded in half.  When I finally realized what it was, I couldn’t help but laugh.  The notes said:

Verizon: $82.13 (42.67)

Gas: $91.87 (51.87)

Electric: $33.16

Water: $16.43 (33.00) > 21.43

Rent: $855.00

Car Payment: $410.00 (200.00)

Car Insurance: $60.29 (91.05)

Food: $200

**Past Due Bills**  [these words were also triple circled. ha! -SM]

Sprint: $185

City: $450

Time Warner: $62

Transouth: $700

I have no idea what the numbers in parentheses mean?  Was that the amount past due?  Maybe it was all I could afford to pay?  And what’s up with the extra code next to the “water” amount?  *shrug*

I “wish” my rent was only $855 again!

Why in the johnbrownhayle did I have a $410 car payment?!?!  I don’t even remember that.  Shoot, my Honda Accord, purchased brand new in 2003, was only $380…AND…I had a real job when I bought it!

Only $200 on food?  I miss that.

How did I owe Sprint AND Verizon?  Da hell was I doing?  I was probably a dumbass and co-signed a cell phone contract for one of my deadbeat cousins or something crazy like that.

And who the heck is Transouth and why did I owe them $700?  I even owed the city government $450.  And for what?  An unpaid parking ticket?  How does one owe the city money?  Hmm…no idea.  I bet both of them went into collections.*smh*

As you can see, I’ve made so many money mistakes, I can’t even remember what they were. LOL!  It’s amazing how much can change when you finally decide enough is enough.

But the million dollar question remains -  why was I writing about my bills in a portfolio that I only used when job hunting?  I guess money was tight and I needed some motivation to find a job QUICK. LOL!

Feeding the E-Fund Just a Little Bit More

Here’s a quick update from last month’s e-Fund report:

Goal: $25,000

Previous Balance: $21,432

Recent Deposits: +$1,262.85

  • Monthly Interest: $39.21
  • Direct Deposit: $200.00
  • Manual Deposit: $1,023.64

New Balance: $22,695

Additional Savings Needed: $2,305

Now that I’ve decided to reduce my 401k contributions, I can probably squeeze out another $2,000 before the end of this year.  With one more paycheck in the month, all bills accounted for, and a few more holiday expenses (especially if I decide to travel again), it may only be $1,800.  If so, the remaining $500 will have to wait until January…unless I earn something extra on the side.

You know something?  Making deposits into my e-fund gives me a rush.  It really makes me excited.  I think it’s because I remember a time when I couldn’t afford to save.  I worked to pay bills.  That’s it.  Most of the time, my expenses were more than my income and I had to rob Peter to pay Paul.  Whenever I’d get ahead, something happened to make me take two steps back.  Because of that, I couldn’t grasp the idea of “pay yourself first.”  For years, I lived this way.  From the looks of those around me, it was normal.

In order to break the cycle, I had to focus on increasing my income - not debt reduction OR savings.  With a higher income, it became easier to pay my bills.  Once I was able to pay all of my bills without skipping a beat, then I began to save - a little.  Although I had extra money to save, I was always so used to being broke, it became a self fulfilling prophecy.  So I shopped.  Then I went through a phase of compulsive shopping and binge saving with one bad habit competing with the other.  That internal battle lasted about a year.

It wasn’t until I decided to buy a house that I changed my habits and began to save consistently.  After a few months, I was saving only what I could afford, I stopped dipping into my savings to shop, yet I still allowed myself to shop occassionally.  Several bad habits were corrected when my mind focused on accomplishing a goal.  Once I realized the connection, I allowed my goals to drive my behavior with money.  Now, when I have a goal in mind - like increasing my e-fund to $25k - I think to myself “is this purchase really that important to me or can this money be used to feed my e-fund just a little bit more?”

And then I get excited all over again!

In Lean Economic Times, We All Need A Budget

As I’m wrapping up a few things to prepare for the busy holiday week, today’s entry is written by Sean, a Fabulous Financials reader.  It is well-written and very timely because the underlying message is relevant to our current economic issues.  Enjoy! [-SM]

Even in the midst of the current economic climate, when it’s obvious that saving money and operating on a budget are good things, a surprising number of people balk at the idea of getting their spending under control in an organized way. Consequently, they wind up feeling resentful and deprived rather than claiming a sense of accomplishment for being in control of their own monetary destiny. “Budget” is not a dirty word, nor is it a difficult process.

No one knows what they can realistically afford until they understand what they are currently spending. The first step in developing a successful budget is a month of income and expense tracking. In whatever way feels most comfortable or works most efficiently, the would-be budgeter should keep track of everything that comes in and everything that goes out for a month in clearly understood categories — utilities, rent, groceries, and so on. For the economically panic stricken whose immediate response is, “that’s not fast enough,” science tells us that the act of observing changes that which is observed. As soon as a person starts paying attention to their spending, their spending habits change.

Record keeping should not, however, stop, once a budgetary pattern has been established. Efficiency experts agree that keeping track of what you have done is actually more effective than listing what you need to do. Consider the quarterly bills that roll in seemingly unannounced, like car insurance and homeowners insurance. Making note of when you last paid these sizeable expenses can allow you to forecast when these bills will come due and allow you to plan for them. Also, if your grocery store has a reward card program or if you’re clipping coupons (both of these are excellent ideas, by the way), keep track of how much you’re saving with these methods as well as tracking the actual cost of the groceries. It’s a tremendous incentive to keep up frugal behavior when the shopper can see a $250 savings thanks to store brands and doubled 25-cent coupons at month’s end.

Credit cards don’t belong in the budget picture, at least not in the early days. Swiping a card is easy. Writing a check or counting out bills is tangible. Part of the disciple of keeping a budget is making money and expenses real again. If, after several months of living by the budget, a credit card expense is manageable — meaning there’s enough extra money in the budget to pay the balance in full or at least twice the required amount of the minimum payment each month — the card can be pulled out and used. The best rule of thumb is to be able to pay off the entire card balance at month’s end with no carry over and interest accrued. If that can’t be done, charge one thing and pay it off completely before anything else goes on the card.

Americans have been living in a climate of instant gratification for at least two decades. Now, with new homeowners often admitting they’re buying a foreclosure (which means someone else lost their home) and water cooler conversations are more about credit scores than football, delayed gratification is back in. Developing a budget and sticking to it does not have to be punishing. It simply means taking a sober, realistic look at individual financial health and accepting what is and isn’t possible. Working an amount into the budget each month to be saved toward a goal or goals will quickly reveal that savored long-term accomplishments taste much better than gobbled instant acquisitions.

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