Tithes and Charitable Giving
A SMFF reader sent me the following email:
Hey Single MaAs I’m re-evaluating my finances, I’m looking towards my financial role models (including you!) and I’m wondering whether you tithe?
I currently do not tithe and I’m okay with it . . . but I do want my spending to be a better reflection of my values. So, I definitely want to increase my giving in 2008.
Just wondering what you do.
My response:
What an interesting and unexpected question! Spiritually, I feel like your email was a gentle reminder that I need to get back on track. So let me be honest with you. No, I don’t tithe right now. Although it’s no excuse, since I moved from SoMD to NoVA, I haven’t found a new church home. The drive to my old church was almost 2 hours away and I fell off after only one month. I’ve visited several churches and I’ve made offerings, but it’s been about 5 months since I’ve paid any tithes.
My Thoughts on Charitable Donations:
At the beginning of the year, I calculate a fixed amount for annual donations by a % of my “gross” earnings. The reason I use gross earnings is because I also take the itemized tax deduction. For personal reasons, I don’t want to give, then turn around and ask Uncle Sam for my money back. So giving based on a % of “gross” earnings with a tax deduction is simply giving away tax free dollars.
Although I don’t tithe (for now), I agree with the SMFF reader - it’s important for my finances to be aligned with my values. So when I make charitable donations, my #1 priority is the Salvation Army due to an experience in my past. Second is anything associated with helping single parents, for obvious reasons. I also contribute to need based programs and social causes that I identify with. And next year, I’m going to pay more attention to Modest Needs, an organization that allows you to review individual circumstances and apply your contribution(s) to any need of your choice. But enough about me…
Do you tithe? Why or why not?
Do you commit a specific amount annually for charitable donations?
What are you favorite charitable organizations?
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