Final 2007 Review: Answers to Single Ma of Yesteryear
On 1 January 2007, I wrote a message to my future self:
On 31 December 2007, I want you to name at least one thing you’ve improved upon or achieved this year in each of the following areas:FAMILY
SPIRITUAL
HEALTH
CAREER
FINANCES
COMMUNITY SERVICE
First of all, considering my answers are 10 days late, it’s obvious that I’m still a big ol’ procrastinator. Graduated head of the BS class. Unfortunately, I don’t see this improving much in 2008. Besides career and finances - I’m a certified slacker.
FAMILY
My home isn’t near my immediate family and I like it that way. LOL My mother is a lil spesho’, but I love her no less. The rest of my family is crazy (literally), sexy, cool. When I miss them, I visit. Otherwise, I love from a distance. From day to day, it’s just me and my BabyGirl. I think 2007 has been THE MOST challenging year EVER. Many things I’ll never disclose on the blog, so let’s just say she drove me to drinking. LOL For those who have teenage daughters, can I get a wit-ness?!
Most Interesting (to me) “Family” Posts of 2007
- 2007 Mom of the Year Award
- Mother’s Day Will Never be the Same
- Leadership Camp #1: Award Winning Essay
- Leadership Camp #2: Most Hated Mom in the World
- Nurturing Her Talents
SPIRITUAL
This is the one area that I’m LEAST proud of. Although I never forget the source of my blessings, my spiritual walk gradually became second fiddle in 2007. I haven’t spoken to my God in months and I’m ashamed. Not because of what other people may say when I admit that I haven’t tithed since June. Not because of what other people may say when I admit that I haven’t been to church since September. Not because of other people at all. I’m ashamed because of what God thinks of me.
Most Interesting “Spiritual” Posts of 2007
HEALTH
*sigh* I’m not fat, my clothes shrunk! That’s my story and I’m sticking to it.
CAREER
Mo’ money, mo’ stress, mo’ problems. Sike, I have a fabulous career! LOL
Most Interesting “Career” Posts of 2007
- Single Ma Has an Interview Today
- I Got the Job!!
- Today is my Last Day
- Worth More Than Money
- Constructive Criticism
- When Your Reputation Precedes You
FINANCES
This can be summed up in three words: I. GOT. THIS.
Most Interesting “Finance” Posts of 2007
COMMUNITY SERVICE
Excluding charitable donations, which were extremely low [see here] considering my salary, I performed ZERO hours of community service in 2007. *smh*
If someone who didn’t know me was reading this list (duh, like most of you!), they’d probably think I was the most vain, self-centered, money hungry, selfish person in the whole wide world. And if I didn’t know any better, I’d probably agree. But I won’t beat myself up about it. I made great strides in 2007, but I recognize there are many things in my life that deserve more attention.
To Future Single Ma: Review this list again on 31 December 2008.
You must do better!
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Work to achieve, not to acquire.
And as always, BE FABULOUS!

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